Veteran Comes Out as Gay in Heartfelt Obituary: A Life of Service and Hidden Love Revealed

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Army veteran, Col. Edward Thomas Ryan, came out as gay in his own obituary, revealing a lifetime secret.
Ryan was a retired colonel, firefighter, and entrepreneur from New York who lived a life of service and sacrifice.
In his heartfelt obituary, Ryan shared that he was in a loving 25-year relationship with Paul Cavagnaro.
Despite receiving honors for his service, Ryan feared being ostracized by family, friends, and co-workers for his sexual orientation.
The obituary highlighted the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in the military and society, especially during Ryan's time.
Ryan's decision to come out posthumously resonated widely, touching the hearts of many who admired his courage and authenticity.
After battling intestinal cancer, Ryan donated his body to medical research at Albany Medical College, with plans for cremation and burial next to Cavagnaro.
Ryan's nephew, Joseph Ryan, shared that his uncle's final message was a long time coming and holds special significance during Pride Month.
In the wake of his obituary, numerous messages of support and admiration poured in, honoring Ryan's life of service and his posthumous revelation.